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Just One More Hit, I'll Stop After the Next Prompt

Building with AI has become the most potent cognitive drug available to founders, and if you run a neurodiverse brain—ADHD, dyslexic, autistic, any brain wired on a different dopamine economy—the compulsion is not metaphorical but pharmacological. AI tools deliver instant feedback, variable reward, and scalable challenge in an endless loop, exploiting the same reward-sensitivity that makes hyperfocus feel like flow but function like addiction. The rotation starts innocently: Manus for data, Lovable for builds, Claude for copy and design, GPT for research. Five tools, five parallel streams, no natural pauses. It looks like extraordinary productivity at 2 am, but the quality of decisions made under that cognitive load tells a different story. This is a piece about the loop, the crash signal that arrives days later, and why stopping has turned out to be harder than writing any prompt.

April 24, 202618 min read
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The book I was not writing

The book I was not writingR asked me how the book was coming.We were on his balcony, the third bottle open, the city doing that thing Bombay does at midnight where it almost quiets down and then decid...

August 07, 20257 min read
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Dreams

The twelve open tabs

The twelve open tabs P stopped inviting me to coffee about six months ago. I noticed it the way you notice something that has quietly stopped happening, not a door slamming but a door that used to ope...

May 30, 20248 min read
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The Art of Surrender

The Art of Surrender, by Michael Singer she said. That's the one I'd recommend. This was a few years ago, pre-covid. I was catching up with a group of friends at the Opera Bar and ended up talking to ...

February 16, 20229 min read
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chasing a heart beat

How Can I Build Confidence?

There are a few different ways to build unshakeable confidence, and I'm going to list a few with a caveat*. ...

August 23, 20177 min read
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Life

The body put its foot down

I had stopped being able to climb the stairs.Not in a dramatic way. I'd get to the third step and my legs would register that there were two more flights to go and they would just decline. Not pain, e...

February 26, 201411 min read
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On Building a High-Performance Culture in your Startup or Scaleup

Why is performance culture critical?

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Featured image for: Breaking Free from Learned Helplessness: A Growth Guide for Individuals and Teams
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Breaking Free from Learned Helplessness: A Growth Guide for Individuals and Teams

Introduction: Learned helplessness silently diminishes both individual and team motivation while reducing productivity. Through…

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Featured image for: Why Micromanagement Fails: Learned Helplessness and the End of Growth
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Why Micromanagement Fails: Learned Helplessness and the End of Growth

Micromanagement feels like control, but it's really fear in disguise. Leaders often fall into it for two reasons: to feel in control or to…

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Featured image for: Everyone is a Marketing Guru
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Everyone is a Marketing Guru

I have a confession: these days, I can't sit through a business meeting without quietly chuckling to myself. Why? Because it seems everyone…

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Featured image for: Reward & Recognition — performance or 'performative' | The Limitations of Voting-Based Employee…
Apr 22, 2023

Reward & Recognition — performance or 'performative' | The Limitations of Voting-Based Employee…

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Featured image for: 4 Ways To Build Rock Solid Self Belief
Mar 22, 2018

4 Ways To Build Rock Solid Self Belief

There are a few different ways to build unshakeable confidence, and I'm going to list a few with a caveat*.

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